Fear as an indicator of life changes

A black hole is a place in space where gravity pulls so much that nothing can escape even the fastest object in the universe – light. The gravity is so strong because matter has been squeezed into a tiny space. They are invisible. Space telescopes with special tools can help find black holes. The special tools can see how stars than are very close to black holes act differently than other stars.

Fear looks like a black hole. It tightens and does not let go back. When a person faces fear, he/she stays paralyzed and begins to adapt or avoid situations where something is frightening. And this fatally leads to stagnation as all the energy is directed to self-protection.

The brain requires focus to unconsciously perceive and adapt to a person's fears, allowing them to instinctively avoid alarming situations in the future.

Moreover, when most of the energy is directed at avoiding or adapting, then a person deprives him/herself of the opportunity to live a full life or to do what he/she wants.

But if the focus of attention is changed from fear of doing something to interest and curiosity, then a person enters the movement of research and then self-growth.

Will we find white holes in the Universe one day?

Or can fear be an indicator of life change?

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Alexandra Dobrynina

Head of the representative office of a foreign company in Wenzhou, China

The founder of the social start-up of Xenado Corporation (self-development, self-growth, leadership)

ICF life and business coach, spiral dynamics follower

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